giggity 
sorry forgot to attach to same post
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Itâs not so important what you say, but how you radiate
women like self-confident men who radiate calmness, who are not afraid to show their sensitive/emotional side (because it is not a weakness), men who are in control and with whom they feel safe.
So donât ask her too much where would you like to go now, where are we going now, do you want this or thatâŚ
You are the one in control (it doesnât mean you have to pull her by the sleeve) but if you simply say letâs go here and there⌠and in a simple way you are subtly telling her that you know and that it is up to her to surrenderâŚ
leave the controls to youâŚ
And try to be mysterious - always try to make her use her brain and always wonder who you are and what you think
because when you make her have to think about you, then sheâs attached to you and spends her time thinking about you
and not that he immediately reads you and that you are not mysterious
because then they will spend their time thinking about something else and not saying âwow who is this enigmaâ
in short, the goal is to engage her brain - and then it is also the way to the heart
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But how would I start a conversation with her if I donât have anything to talk about? The only thing we have in common as far as I can see, is that we had a class together last year. But I can never bring myself to even talk to her, because I am scared of rejection. I already know she wants a boyfriendâbecause one of our mutual friends screenshotted something that she resposted on TikTok. (sounds very creepy but just look)
Even while knowing all this I still fear rejectionâŚ
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You can simply stand in front of her and tell her âfrom today you are my girlfriendâ 
You donât need to be afraid of rejection first, because women like seduction, that you make an effort around her, etc.,
you also need to choose the right moment, not when she is surrounded by a bunch of people in a crowd
start with a simple look into her eyes and if your eyes meet and she looks at you for more than 4 seconds without blinking or looking away, and if possible she smiles at you, then great !
especially if she checks again later to see if youâre looking at her, then you know sheâs interested
when you look at each other like that a few times, you wave at her, send your hearts flying
you approach her, ask her name, introduce yourself, immediately give her a few compliments on her clothes, hairstyle, smile,
make her laugh⌠try to make her laugh more than once and donât have long pauses
and then you say thank you for the conversation and ask for a contact number
then you wait for one or two daysâŚdonât follow up right awayâŚlet her wonder if you forgot her and where are youâŚwhy donât you contact her on XY social network etcâŚ
there are thousands of directions where the conversation can go
and you adapt to the situation
basically, be relaxedâŚshe is just a girl not a god
anyway, you will change at least 10 others during your life
she is very attractive
you pass her a couple of times in the corridor
or something like thatâŚyou create opportunities for her to see you for a few days and to look into each otherâs eyesâŚlater you can greet her out loudâŚeven later it will become a habit for you to pass by each other
then you tell her: next time you buy coffee ! (or whatever drink comes to your mind)
then you already have plenty of opportunities to start a conversation, etcâŚ
like I donât know if fate brought us together⌠blah blahâŚ
if she just smiles and doesnât communicate much because she has to move on,
next time you meet you ask: where is my coffee?
and you give her your hand, say your name, etc.
or to return to the mystery 
you give her a lemon after youâve met a couple of times in passing
first because itâs unusualâŚsheâll remember youâŚsheâll tell her colleagues how some guy gave her a lemonâŚomg lemon? cool! woowww
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@YT_Xaos Buddy, if she doesnât reply to you back in a way that canât continue a conversation, it means she isnât interested in you. 
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OKAY FINE, IM LEAVING.
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Thatâs not what admin meant.
Come backâŚ
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With that temper and attitude, maybe it is for their own good 
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This is why I hate closed source
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What you said makes sense, but many women will deliberately make themselves unavailable just so that men will work hard around them and reward the most persistent one.
The more beautiful the woman, the more she is used to playing and pretending not to be interestedâŚjust to see who will be persistent (because she has a lot of suitors and experience, so itâs not fun for her to give up with someone right away - she likes the game)
And then on the other hand the very beautiful ones - many men are afraid to approach them because they think they have no chance of succeeding (unavailable category)
and in fact, they desperately want someone to approach them and are very open.
I expected the female part of the forum to give some advice 
I donât know why they are silentâŚ
and the servers are affected
I find it funny to read comments like this
he does not understand at all that the problem is not in the picture itself
but the problem is in the libs and someone/malware can insert the code that will be executed instead of the image.
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I was socialized quite differently and was left alone by my female peers pretty much over this; which means I donât really know how different an average womanâs experience is from mine. And most of people I met irl were arses of some kind and the communities that Iâm in are mostly male dominated so that explains.
However Iâm confident to say that if you want to get in touch with someone in particular, be confident. I could understand why one may be shy when it comes to such situations but if you donât make a move then it is not going to go anywhere.
And due to the social stigma, ladies are more likely to hide their feelings from others so you may try to gain their trust first.
On another note, I can never recommend enough to LOOK FOR THE RED FLAGS, you may ignore those since love tends to blind you well in the beginning (especially as a teenager) but once it wears off, you will realize that you were abused and the relationship has been intoxinated enough.
Lastly, if you want to be loved then you should start with loving yourself and having self respect, otherwise you are going to attract those whom see you as a product to âuseâ and not as an individual that you are.
A Tl;dr though, if you want to impress a girl then treat her like a human, if you are not getting the same treatment in return then leave her even if it hurts.
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I wasnât calling you dumb, I was saying the exact opposite. I said the naming was chosen because other people might not know what Turnstile is.
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I checked my console and my network tab and yeah, for me the requests from Cloudflare for its CAPTCHA work fine, even if the widget doesnât render but is a part of the button. But if they werenât working in my case, at least it was useful to have a fallback!
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Tiffany⌠whenever you misinterpret something, try not to blow up. This only causes problems and will make people think less of you. I understand if something is happening in your personal life, but, this not the way to go about it.
And thank you @Herbert , @Oxy , and @Ziverre for your advice! I really appreciate it.
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https://byte.me/ is for sale 
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YW and NP
Valentineâs Day is coming soon, so you can give her a gift
and start communication that way
in the hallway (or even better - when she goes home), you stop her and just say:
âIâm sorry for stopping you so suddenly, but I canât help but give you thisâ
and give her the bag - where you can leave a message + contact, and so on.
donât buy big gifts - buy something simple like a stuffed toy + some chocolate/candies, definitely put one lemon and soâŚbut try to be original - and not buy something that the majority would !!!
You can also add some nonsense in a bag to make it funny, like bathtub stopper or glass cleaner and the like. It will let her know that you are special (because she has never received something like that and also funny as a gift)
Definitely check if she has a boyfriend in advance - otherwise you would be wasting money
On the other hand, if you donât give her a present, maybe someone else will and thus undermine your chances.
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whats the best way to learn how to climb stairs ?
use the step by step guide
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WTF. Why would you give someone a bathtub stopper?
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In unrelated news, I am now remembering exactly why I hate frontend work
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So that they think that you will one day marry them, of course!
Why? Itâs better than the backend.
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Oh hell no. Backend does not rely on the placement of pesky <div> tags.
In backend I spend more time trying to figure out how something is done over actually implementing it. In frontend, nobodyâs elseâs code (ie codepen) is easily compatible with mine without needlessly inflating files, and though all the software I have used (Adobe Dreamweaver, Sublime (custom coding it), BS Studio, and even working in Dev Tools) all absolutely sucks and is beyond frustrating.
And donât even get me started on screen width, AJAX, accessibility, stupid f****** browser companies, and flexbox
At least IE is gone
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