How did you miss out the sarcasm? This is criticism directed to social media companies, not you:
Surprise: Paid hosting doesn’t have this issue, as social media companies aren’t as aggressive with them as they are on free hosting. Customers of paid hosting also usually bring their own domains with them, so it is way harder to get blacklisted (unless you’re doing something malicious, you normally should be off the hook).
It is a shame they exist in the first place; it is a shame that malicious actors are willing to abuse the goodwill of free hosting providers for their own nefarious purposes. There are automated systems in place that detect and suspend most malicious actors very quickly, but some slip through the cracks, as is the nature of free hosting; just like the police in real life, you can’t immediately catch them all. It would be great if crime could always be prevented before it occured, but it realistically is impossible.
Trust me, the domain owner is powerless too.
And in cases they do respond, their response is something like this:
Please try not to post multiple times to address responses from different people. You can do so in one post; posting multiple times can appear as spam, and can be one of the reasons your topics get the “15 minute slowdown” you complained about.